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What Is The Conflict In The Unbearable Lightness Of Being

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Although there is no one way to live, in times of peril, there is oftentimes only a single way to survive. Tomas, the fatally flawed protagonist in The Unbearable Lightness of Being, is constructed around the predicament that with only one life, choices are made insignificant and meaningless. This is devastating for Tomas’ wife, Tereza, who attempts to condone his carefree bachelor ways, but ultimately feels degraded by Tomas’ infidelity. Although Tereza willingly fled Czechoslovakia before the Russian invasion with Tomas, six months afterwards, Tereza is convinced that she has become a burden on her husband and returns unexpectedly to Prague. Her abrupt departure induces Tomas’ midlife crisis as he is unsure if he should follow. Due to the …show more content…

Similarly, Count Alexander Ilyich Rostov, the titular character of Amor Towles’ novel, A Gentleman In Moscow, experiences a fall from grace after he is sentenced by a Bolshevik Tribute to life imprisonment within the grand Hotel Metropol. Despite being declared a former person, the Count continues his former lifestyle as a gentleman and a scholar, vowing to live a life of purpose. Over three decades at the Metropol, this purpose expands to include being a waiter at the Boyarsky, working to preserve the traditional legacy of the restaurant, as well as being the father figure for Sofia, after the young girl is left in his care. All the while, the Count’s sense of self is challenged by a malevolent force inside the Metropol: a man whom the Count calls the Bishop. Both Kundera and Towles rely on internal struggles with identity to develop conflict; however, in The Unbearable Lightness of Being, tension is built from attempting to change one’s identity, while in A Gentleman in Moscow, it is from resistance to change. Regardless, conflict emerges in both works as characters struggle to control their own identities, the identities of those around them, and the cultural identity of the land from which they …show more content…

After Tomas and Tereza are acquainted by haphazardous events, Tereza arrives in Prague with the sole intention of reuniting with him. Retrospecting on Tereza’s arrival with her heavy suitcase, symbolic of the heavy burden that she would impose on his life, Tomas compares his wife-to-be to an abandoned child. He justifies loving her noting, “If Polybus hadn’t taken in the young Oedipus, Sophocles wouldn’t have written his most beautiful tragedy” (11). However, this is in violation of Tomas’ code that in happy romantic relationships, neither person can claim ownership of the other. Likewise, Tereza, after taking ownership of Tomas, seeks no identity beyond her relationship with him, as he alone is able to unify her body and soul. The first time they met, Tereza felt “her soul rushing up through the blood vessels and pores to show itself to him” (48). For this reason, her husband’s infidelity is more detrimental than jealousy, as Tereza’s individuality is in the hands of a man who equates her to other women. Moreover, Kundera extends the allusion to Sophocles’ Oedipus Rex later in the novel through one of Tereza’s traumatic dreams in which she has been buried while Tomas has been with other women. When Tomas returns, he attempts to remove the dirt from his wife’s eyes, which prompts Tereza to respond, “I can't see anyway. I have holes instead of eyes” (227). This

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