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Motherhood Essay

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Motherhood Many different aspects of life characterize motherhood. Traditions along with society influence the role of motherhood. Carol Stacks' "All our Kin," is an essay about the "structuring of kin groups" (1974, p.47). In the society, if the mother is not mature enough to raise the child, a close female relative takes on the role of the mother; whereas, the man has the option of choosing to claim the child and take on the responsibilities of fatherhood or he can imply that the father could be anyone, which is a socially acceptable reason. Ruth Horowitz' "The Expanded Family and Family Honor," portrays a Mexican Family as a "nuclear family unit" within an "expanded family" (1983, p.64). After marriage, motherhood is an expected …show more content…

Virginity is looked upon as an honor to a woman's husband or her father. It is dishonorable to lose one's virginity before marriage because a mother is portrayed as an honorable and respectful figure. If her virginity is lost before marriage or adultery is committed, the society's respect toward the mother is lost.
On 32nd street, society establishes that the birth mother take on the role of the caretaker before birth whereas, in The Flats, it is established after birth. On 32nd street, society implies that it is the woman's duty to bear children. "Motherhood is seen not as a last resort but rather as a highly honored role" (Horowitz, 1983, p.71). After marriage, a woman's chief purpose is to bear and raise children. In The Flats, if the mother is not "emotionally ready to nurture a child", the parental rights are given to a female member of the family who accepts the responsibility as "mama" (Stack, 1974, p. 49). "In the eyes of the community, a young mother who does not perform her duties has not validated her claim to parenthood (Stack, 1974, p.49).
When a woman becomes a mother she takes on the expected responsibility of bonding with her child. In The Flats the "mama" is the women who "raises" the child, usually for life (Stack, 1974, p.48). The "mama" may raise the child and the natural

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